Alpha males get laid. Period. If you were alpha you would have sex. Hell, if you really want to get into it even beta, delta, and a lucky gamma male gets to have (transactional) sex. Thus, ultimately if you are not getting laid you are not alpha by default. My remedy? Become alpha. Whether it be becoming the best on your chess team or the best on your football team. (Examples of course.) Your choice boyo.
thanks mate! Still not sure whether that's what I wanna do for my whole life, but I'm really enjoying studying in this right now, and it's really helping myself develop as a person. Hope the army stuff's going well!