Why I got demoted...

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  1. Yzel

    Yzel Jess - Yzel Donator

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    I got demoted because of two reasons;
    1) Multiple personality disorder
    2) Anger issues.

    1) I have two personalities, one good one bad, and it's if both are constantly fighting with one another. The good one trying to make everyone happy and be polite and make friends and the other is trying to destroy that and turns me into mean and heartless. Because of this, I was quite mean to people at points and it wasn't fair on them. I'm sorry to those people.

    2) I have anger issues, I can't control my feelings for instance, Last Thursday I threw a chair at someone because they told me not to put my bag on their table when I wasn't even on their table and I got angry because of the way he shouted at me. So if someone annoyed me, I'd shoot back at them with anger, and again, it wasn't fair on them

    I do go to therapy to try help it, and I try to fix myself but it hasn't worked. I want the people who I upset to know that I never meant any harm to them and for them to know that I want to prove I'm not a bad person :}

    I repeatedly got angry and was rude to other staff members...

    ~Jess
     
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  2. Witha

    Witha Mandy 11.28.21 <3 Donator

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    That suks I saw u at least making it to mod
     
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  3. PopeUrbanII

    PopeUrbanII deus vult Donator

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    You shouldn't say you got demoted because of your multi personality disorder, you should say you were demoted because of actions caused by your multi personality disorder.
     
  4. ZeusV

    ZeusV Former Moderator Donator

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    We all make mistakes, you just gotta learn from them, Kyufa.
    Thanks for everything and I hope you and me can be in the staff team together again.
     
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  5. ZakMuir

    ZakMuir Veteran Donator

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    Thanks for everything bestie

    I am here to support you through out this shit man.
    I hope you can make it back into the team one day, as you were a great staff member.
     
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  6. Yzel

    Yzel Jess - Yzel Donator

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    Isn't that the exact same thing just worded differently?

    Love you bestie

    Would be fun...
     
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  7. Teddie

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    Hope everything goes well in the future.
    We're always here to support you.
     
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  8. PopeUrbanII

    PopeUrbanII deus vult Donator

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    Not at all, the way you worded it you made it sound the server demoted you because you have a multi personality disorder, when in reality, according to you, you were demoted for what you did CAUSED by your multi personality disorder.
     
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  9. tence3000

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    I don't think the wording of the reasons should be the emphasis of this topic.
    But the fact that you're acknowledging what you have done wrong and have apologised for it.
    Personally, that's what matters to me.
     
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  10. RulerofMobs

    RulerofMobs Fuck. Bye, survival. Donator

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    Aww you seemed nice. Sorry this happened to you.
     
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    Costellon professional Boy Donator

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    i hope you're okay. if you ever want to talk to me, you know where to find me.
     
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  12. ZakMuir

    ZakMuir Veteran Donator

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    I love you more
     
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  13. Gamerrizz

    Gamerrizz Minecraft Realms MapMaker | Creator of Dodge!

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    Ah rip. tbh you seemed perfectly fine and nice.
     
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  14. Contemptible

    Contemptible | Former Mοd | Donator

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    Personally, I've never seen you in action (I'm inactive af lol), so I couldn't give an opinion on how you've been doing. Although, I can say that it takes a lot to own up to mistakes, and that's very good.

    If you get angry, watch puppy videos ;)
     
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  15. Yzel

    Yzel Jess - Yzel Donator

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    Puppy and kitty videos <3
     
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    I saw you as a pretty good staff member. It sucks that you have things that effect you in real life.

    Hope that it gets better for you in the future.
     
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    I really wanted to try and help you because, you know what? I thought you had a great future, moving away from the "anger issues".

    If there's one thing you shouldn't try and do from now on, is to constantly "dwell" on your demotion and to leave this all in the past, thus you'll come to great terms with most of, if not, all of the staff.

    Safe travels o/
     
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  18. Yzel

    Yzel Jess - Yzel Donator

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    I'm going to work on myself for a while and reapply when I feel ready...
     
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    witchchick128 Amity Blight Donator

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    rip rip potato chip

    eh who cares go be mod on mineplex
    nah jk that servers dead

    where am i going with this
    too bad so sad, but good try man. just keep a positive attitude (if you can) and do some meditation i guess

    (p.s: eh this servers dead anyways :))))))) when it comes to english people that is)
     
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    Yzel Jess - Yzel Donator

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    English are the minority