How does it feel to be ignored?

Discussion in 'General Discussion / Real life stuff' started by Eziomiki, Sep 10, 2017.

  1. Eziomiki

    Eziomiki Donator

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    How does it feel to be ignored. To have your lifelong friends leave you and tell you nothing. To have to hide this pain. And these lifelong relationships die and fade away in such a childish manner. That's human nature isn't it? All of humanity is just a series of trade. Generosity doesn't exist. People give for reputation. People take for self gain. But that same rule applies to losing someone doesn't it? You have a significant other and in exchange for being with them you get happiness, joy. It's like supply and demand. You then get bored, and break apart, doing nothing to fix your bordem, to leave someone in distress just because you didn't want to do the work. The trade is done, now you have too much of one thing. And now consider how the one in distress feels, lonely, heartbroken, deserted. You told him nothing, you said nothing, you were a coward to say anything, and broken apart in the hardest way, staying silent and doing shady things. If only you addressed it, your partner would understand, and would have been fine, but instead, you have neglected him and put him in a physiological crisis. So I ask you again. How does it feel to be ignored?
     
  2. Teddie

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    i mean im used to it
     
  3. PapaPickle

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    is this a copypasta
     
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  4. Timyus

    Timyus The KitPvP Guy Donator

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    Speak for yourself

    seems like the people you make relationships with are the wrong ones

    and sometimes people need to be ignored, it's healthy
     
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    Either stand up to being ignored or learn to live with it.

    It hurts for a while but you'll get used to it.
     
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  7. kiraa

    kiraa ugh Donator

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    yo if someone ignored me id yell at them to get their god damn attention aint no one finna ignore me tf and if they keep on doing that to you just pull up have a good lul fight bc their bitchass didnt tell you shit abt why they ignoring you
     
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  8. Khorndog

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    It makes me wana crak theyr head open its so annoying whn I'm triing too make a point or play with somneone but then they just ignore me because there was a polayer nAMED "theogamelia" AND SHE IGNORE ME AL DAY EVERYDAY NO REASON SAME WITH XlONE, cHOSENz, AND MORE IM SO MAd I JUSt I'm TIreD ITs lEGit cyberbullying vrIGhT there!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!iiiiiiiiiiiiiiii
     
  9. Costellon

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    you cant be serious.
     
  10. t3mptr3s

    t3mptr3s ~ Emotional Support Staff Member ~ Staff Member Mod+

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    I'm usually that friend that drifts off. It's not because of anything but how my head is. Usually I get so focused on one thing that I forget everything else on the side. A few years ago we moved almost 3k miles back to where Ezz's family is. I can text or email or Facebook my friends from back home. There is this one woman in particular. She ran the local soccer league. So over the years we got to be close because my kids played on it. She is an absolutely wonderful person. When we moved, it was like I stopped. I remember writing her a really long letter. I told her how I'm bad at being a friend. I'm very into computers and she.. well not so much. She's now on Facebook so it's better.

    The lesson from this. Try to be aware of how you act/react. That's all you can control.

    Side note: Sometimes me being ignored by people is actually a relief regardless of the reason.
     
  11. Stolas

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    You get used to it :)
     
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    t3mptr3s ~ Emotional Support Staff Member ~ Staff Member Mod+

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    But you shouldn't have to <3
     
  13. Phoenix

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    Got used to it faster than I should've. Stood up one day but got knocked down within a second.
     
  14. capsa

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    feels so good to be ignored (((:
    no im actually used to it lol, its just something that happens daily
     
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  15. kiraa

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    but i am serious im not any of you am i
     
  16. Golembyte

    Golembyte it’s rare you see me online Donator

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    When I join I get messaged like crazy with angry people for something that happened months ago because someone wants to ruin me and they don’t know how to shut their face...
     
  17. Costellon

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    lol really
     
  18. With_Billy

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    Just spam "plz can I have money" and they will eventually reply "don't message me again". Then technically you are not being ignored.
     
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    Yup
     
  20. Bruhtrash

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    Being ignored can affect people in different ways. With me, if someone I know and love dearly just flat out ignores me and doesn't talk to me, of course, I'd be sad but I'd just move on and forget. I wouldn't let someone that treated me like shit have "another chance" with me and I wouldn't forgive them (easily). If/when I get ignored, I just ignore them back and it just doesn't get fixed until of us speaks up about it and wants to restart the relationship. Don't let anyone hold you back, especially if they have been a jerk to you and then suddenly show mercy when they have no one.
    Sorry if this is a bit of a rant, this is a touchy subject lol
     
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